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5 Challenges from the life of Rachel Joy Scott

3/20/2017

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On April 20, 1999 in Littleton, Colorado, one of the worst school shootings in America took place.  Two boys who attended Columbine High School were being bullied, and decided to do something about it. They walked onto school grounds that day armed with two shotguns and bombs. Their plan: set off two small bombs in the cafeteria moments before lunch and then shoot the students as they fled the cafeteria. However, the bombs failed to activate. So the boys decided to walk into the school for plan B. Their first random victim: Rachel Joy Scott. +

Rachel was an avid writer and great student. She wasn't the smartest. She wasn't the prettiest. Se wasn't the most popular. She was just a normal high school student. Yet, she was different. She saw the best in everyone. She was one of those people that was friends with everyone, and stood up for what she believed was right.

Rachel had many influences. One of them was Anne Frank, a Holocaust victim. Anne Frank wrote down her feelings and dreams in a journal, which has been preserved thanks to a close friend of the Franks. Anne's idea of keeping a journal inspired Rachel to keep one as well. Not just one journal, but six. 

Through her journal writings, we see that Rachel struggled with her faith, doubted God at times, but desired to live a life for God.  She wrote "Since Jesus gave His life for Me, I will give my life to Him." She demonstrated her beliefs in everyday things, such as inviting the new girl to sit with her at lunch, or standing up for someone being bullied.  When a new girl arrived in school one day, she was having a hellish day. The girl said, "What made my day was Rachel coming up to me and asking if I wanted to join her and her friends for lunch. I declined, not wanting to intrude. Rachel left, but came back two minutes later, carrying her lunch over to my table, and she sat down with her two friends and ate lunch with me." With the bullying incident, a disabled boy was being bullied by a couple of athletes because he was different. They knocked his books from his hands and started teasing him and calling him names. Rachel caught this one day and stood between the boy and his bullies, telling the bullies to stop. They did.

On the back of her sixth journal, there is a quote from Rachel.

"I will not be labeled as average."

Rachel wanted to impact the world. At the age of thirteen, she traced the outline of both her hands on her bedroom wall and wrote inside of them. It said: "These hands belong to Rachel Joy Scott and will someday touch millions of people's hearts."

Rachel's main goal of life was to start a chain reaction. She theorized that if one person went out of their way to be kind to another, then people would follow their lead, and start a chain reaction. She wanted to change the world, to change it with kindness.

Rachel was kind to everyone she met. She tried not to judge and tried to become friends with everyone. Key word: Tried. Rachel knew that she wasn't perfect. She even wrote in a journal one time that she had her ups and downs. But she goes on to say how she never gave up, and how no one should ever give up.

On the day of Rachel's death, she decided to sit outside and eat lunch with a friend on the grass who wanted to talk to her about his parents getting a divorce, since she had gone through the same experience.  The boys entered the school where Rachel was sitting. Behind her was the door to the school that led to the library. The boys shot Rachel, piercing her diary as well. She was the first to die. Another twelve were to die as well, as well as thirty or more injured. Before the police could catch the two, the boys took their own lives in the library after causing such a traumatic event.

The a week after Rachel died, her father received a random call from a businessman in Ohio. He offered his condolences to the family, but then told Rachel's dad about a constant dream that he had starting the day after the shooting. He described the scene in his dream. It was of two eyes, innocent eyes, and they were crying. Something right beneath the tears in the ground was growing, sprouting life. A few days later, the police called and said that Rachel's backpack could be picked up from the station, as they were finished using it as evidence. Her father took the sixth diary from her bag and opened it to the last entry, where Rachel had drawn a pair of eyes with tears raining down upon a growing flower.  The number of tears falling from the eyes was thirteen, one for each innocent person that died at the shooting that day.

Rachel Joy Scott leaves us with five challenges today.

1) Dream big

Your dreams are your guides for your future. Not only should you dream big, but you need to pursue your dreams, and you should never, ever, EVER give up.

2) Choose positive influences

We are surrounded with a bunch of people. Everyone has a story, and not everyone makes the best decisions for themselves. If you hang around people who work hard and try their best, you are most likely going to work hard and try your best. The people around you influence you, whether you want to believe it or not. You can act one way with one group of friends, and then have a completely different personality with another. Peer pressure is common among all age groups. Peer pressure is an influential factor. It influences us to do stuff that we may or may not be comfortable with. Rachel wrote a letter to her cousin one time, and she says, "Don't let your character change color with your environment. Find out who you are and let it stay its true color."  If you want to live a life of faith, ask yourself...do I have important people in my life that share that faith.

3) Look for the best in everyone

Prejudice is a common issue among everyone. Not one person alive today can honestly say that they've never looked at someone and judged them before without getting to even know them. We can judge people in numerous ways: how they dress, how they speak, what color skin they have, how popular they are, how smart they are, and so many others. Rachel tried to eliminate prejudice from her life, and searched for the best in everyone she met. And that's what she wants us to do. In every person, there is something good because they are created in the image and likeness of God. Sometimes that good thing is hidden or buried deep down, but it's there. We just need to search for it.

4) Be kind to everyone

What some people don't understand is that words can hurt. Sure, words can make you feel good and elated, but they can also ruin your day. Words can be a person's worst weapon. When you receive a compliment, you feel happy and joyful, glad that someone recognized you for something good that you've done. That feeling, most of the time, is temporary. However, when someone is insulted, that feeling of despair and depression is carried around a whole lot longer. You remember how you felt when you received a compliment or an insult because words are powerful. And people just don't seem to realize that all the time. Even if it is meant as a joke, they can hurt. And while some people are pretty good at hiding their true feelings and can go around with a fake smile, others cannot, and sometimes poor decisions are made because of the influence of words. Someone once came up with this saying:

You see that teenage girl over there with the newborn baby you just called a slut? She was raped last year

You see that little boy you just made fun of for crying? His mother is dying.

You see that girl you just called fat? She spends all her time starving herself, striving to be skinny.

You see that man that you teased for having scars covering his entire face? He fought valiantly for our country.

Stop the bullying. Words hurt.

Behind every person is a story, and we don't know every single person's story. Therefore we should be kind and compassionate to everyone.

5) Start your own your own chain reaction

Rachel Joy wanted to start a chain reaction of kindness. She wanted to change the world. Now, I want you to close your eyes, and picture the ten people you love the most standing there in front of you, smiling and waving. Your parents. Your siblings. Your friends. Your teachers. Now I want you to go to them. Not over text. Not over Facebook. Not over Twitter. But actually go to them in the flesh and tell them how much you love them. How much they mean to you. There will be a day they won't be here anymore with you. Someday, you won't be here with them. We aren't guaranteed tomorrow, we aren't guaranteed five minutes. Rachel chose to live her live to the fullest with whatever time God gave her.

Rachel proposes these five challenges to us. Do you accept Rachel's challenge?
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A New School Year...what's new with you?

8/18/2016

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New shoes . . .
New school supplies . . .
New teachers . . .
New classes . . .
New grade level . . .
New clothes . . .
New schedule . . .
New locker . . .

Sound familiar? The list goes on and on, but the theme is consistent, this school year isn’t that same as last years, it’s different, it’s new.

Whether you are eagerly organizing your classes with color coded folders or trying to somehow figure out how you can make the sweetness of summer last just a little bit longer, the truth is, school is back in session.

New school years for me always brought a mix of fear, excitement and anxiety. Don’t be fooled. None of my concern was about tests or academics, sports or activities (you know, the reasons we go to school.) I was concerned about things like having the perfect first day of school clothes, finding my friends at lunch, who was in my classes, and yes, which girls got cuter over the summer.

One thing I remember about high school was that there was a lot of pressure to “be somebody.” There were so many different molds to fit, so many different crowds to hang out with.

When I was in high school I had a friend who was always changing his image. One day he was sporty, the next month he was preppy, the next month he was into skateboarding. You really never knew what was next. My friend did this because he wanted so desperately to fit in, but the truth is, he wasn’t being faithful to who he really was.

I think sometimes we put all of our energy in creating and recreating “images” of ourselves that are only visible on the outside. When we do this, we fail to focus on being the best person we can be on the inside, in our heart, mind and soul. The images we create of our appearances fade, but who we create on the inside shapes us for the rest of our lives.

I know a lot of you went to retreats, conferences, and various IMPACT events this summer with us. I also know that during these experiences you encountered Christ in a new, exciting and personal way. When we encounter Christ for the first time or in a new way, it is called conversion. The thing about conversion is that we are constantly being converted closer and closer to Christ until we are with him in heaven.

When we encounter Jesus we walk away changed. It can be hard to figure out how to live out your relationship with Christ in your daily life, especially at school. I mentioned my friend who always felt the need to “recreate” his image in order to fit in with his peers. Maybe you face that temptation as well. Or maybe after your experience with Christ this summer you realized that there are areas in your life that you needed to recreate in order to live a life that is pleasing to Christ.

Wherever you find yourself, I have a challenge for you. Make this school year about giving yourself completely to Christ in order to have Him create your image. See, one of the goals in our walk with Christ is to become like Him. We don’t have to put on an “image” we just have to put on Christ, (Galatians 3:27, Romans 13:14) because He shows us who we really are.

It can be hard to live out the faith you experienced over the summer. Here are a few things to remember as you try to “put on Christ” and live out the faith you experienced this summer.

1. Jesus is present in the silence.
Retreats and conferences are awesome because everyone is on fire for their faith, there is great music and dynamic speakers. It is important to remember, sometimes we experience Jesus the most in the silence of our hearts and the simple tasks of our days, yes – even in our homework. Ask Jesus to be with you in those moments.

2. Jesus is present in the Eucharist.
Perhaps you had an amazing moment with Jesus this summer at Mass or Adoration. Here is what’s awesome; those experiences are not just one time events! Jesus is present everyday at Mass. I encourage you to go to Mass as often as possible. Many churches have Adoration chapels, it may be silent, but it is the same Jesus in Adoration that you experienced this summer!

3. Seek out Community.
One of the best ways to make sure your faith is sustained in the school year to find friends who share your faith. This is great because they can hold you accountable in your walk with faith. With friendships like these you won’t feel pressure to put on a certain image, because you share Christ in common.  The best way to do this is to come to our IMPACT Sunday Nights.  We meet every Sunday night after the 6pm Mass in the Parish Center.  It's great way to connect with friends and refresh yourself spiritually for the coming week.

4. Don’t give up.
It can be hard to live out your faith during the school year, especially after an amazing summer. Jesus knows you aren’t perfect, He sees and blesses your effort. Everyone faces difficulties in practicing their faith, don’t give up even if it gets hard! You are never alone, the saints in heaven are praying for you and remember, you have God who loves and cares for you!
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Know the Power of the Resurrection

4/13/2015

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I was reading the Scriptures this past week when I ready something that I know I've ready before, but really impacted me...as if reading for the first time.  It was from St. Pauls Letter to the Phillipians:

"For his sake I have accepted the loss of all things and I consider them so much rubbish, that I may gain Christ...to know him and the power of his resurrection and [the] sharing of his sufferings by being conformed to his death" Phil 3:8,10

So I asked myself, what if we lived as though death no longer existed?

I mean, really live that way. What if we lived as though death was literally not an option for us? What if we chose to radically live in the newness of life that Jesus offers us through His Resurrection?

It’s not that crazy of an idea. After all, Jesus said it: “Amen, amen, I say to you, whoever keeps my word will never see death” (John 8:51). How is this possible when we know death is a reality? We must remember that, as beings created with a soul, we are meant for eternal life. It is in sin that we experience death. Through Christ’s Resurrection, Jesus defeated death for all eternity. We are set free from the eternal effects of sin and we are given the opportunity to participate in the new life offered to us through the Resurrection.

Here is the thing. We participate in this new life in eternity, but we also can participate in this new life now. The Resurrection means that our lives are radically changed.

Sometimes I fail to realize what the Resurrection means for my life. Often times I am too busy worrying about daily tasks, getting all my work done, or focusing on my own momentary suffering. The fact that Jesus defeated death not only gives me the opportunity to enter eternal life, but also dramatically changes my daily life. When I live in the knowledge of the Resurrection, “death” is transformed in our daily lives. This means our sufferings, hardships, sinfulness, and burdens have the chance to be restored into new life.

It took me awhile to figure this out, and it is something I have to remind myself of daily. Fortunately, I have had many great models of this in my life. I have had friends who have lost multiple loved ones in short periods of time, rather than turning to despair she was able to turn her suffering into rejoicing because she knew death was not the end. I have also had friends who have shown me this by turning to Christ for the first time in their life; they truly lived in the newness of life offered by Christ by turning away from their sin and turning to God’s glory.

So what does it mean to live as death no longer existed? Just as my friends did, it means to live in the power of the Resurrection daily. It means that death has no victory because the Cross is our true victory. When we live in the Resurrection we don’t have to look any further for answers to “death” in our life. Death has already been answered by the victory of the cross. Jesus already conquered the grave and he conquers graves in our own lives every day.

If we all chose to live in this knowledge, our lives will change in a dramatic and holy way. It can be easy to remember this on Easter. But it’s not so easy live in this knowledge a couple of weeks or months from now when we experience the loss of a loved one, a fight with a friend, struggle with depression, or fail a test.

Whatever your hardship, remember that death literally has no power over us. Because of the Resurrection, our physical death is our entrance into eternal life. Because of this we have hope! Hope that our suffering will be made new and that our lives will be made new everyday and for eternity with Christ! Live in this knowledge and allow the Resurrection to change your daily life.

“Love wins; death no more” is now our anthem. Will it be yours?

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20 Unusual Things to do for Lent

2/26/2015

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Ready to move beyond just giving up chocolate? If you know us at IMPACT, you know we like to make things a bit… well… more interesting. So here’s a list of weird things to do for Lent from LifeTeen Ministries . The best part is that even though they’re a bit odd, they will actually help you to be holy!

-Don’t eat the last bite of your food
-Park at the very back of the parking lot
-Put a popcorn kernel in your shoe every day
-Don’t use your apps
-Get to know your neighbors
-Pray the “Hail Mary” and do an ab crunch for every single word
-Stop complaining and/or being negative
-Give up texting and call whomever you need to talk to
-Don’t use utensils
-Give away 10 shirts, 2 pairs of pants, and a pair of shoes
-When you wake up, jump out of bed, kiss the floor, and learn humility
-Wear the same 4 outfits for all of lent
-Everyday do 20 (or 100) pushups and offer it up for someone who’s sick
-Leave a post-it with a positive message on it wherever you go
-Cut out all screen-time (phone, TV, computer) after dinner
-Use your weekends to babysit for free
-Send a different person from our IMPACT ministry an affirmation email every day of Lent
-Don’t straighten or curl your hair
-Sit and stand up straight – don’t slouch!
-Every day take a picture of something or someone you’re grateful for and hang the pictures in your room

Of course you could combine any of those ideas, or put your own spin on them! Don’t forget that Lent is about stretching ourselves. It’s about doing something that’s uncomfortable in order to deny our “flesh” and make more room for God. I’m praying for you. Have a holy Lent.
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A Letter to My Daughter, Chiara

1/5/2015

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A letter I hope to give to my daughter one day:

Chiara -

I pray that by the time you read this, you finally “get it.”

Countless times you’ve rolled your eyes at me when I tell you how beautiful you are, how special you are, and how God has designed you so perfectly.

You once asked me, “When are you gonna stop telling me how beautiful I am?”

I pray that my response is etched in your memory, “Until you believe it… and then I’ll just remind you.”

And why, you may ask, is this constant reminder of your beauty and dignity so necessary? Has your old man just lost it? Is senility finally catching up to my premature gray hair?

No, not senile yet. I’m afraid I just understand all to well what you seem not to fully comprehend yet… namely:

You are incredible.

You are special.

You are beautiful.

You are a gift from God.

You are made for more than this world can comprehend or appreciate.

You are made for more than you are ready to admit or accept.

You are made for greatness.

You are not just my child, you are His child.

Don’t believe me? The Sacraments prove it. You have the life and power of God inside of you. It is true and real and undeniable. Deal with it. So don’t play small. False humility is true pride. True humility, however, is the very power of God unleashed on a world desperately in need of it.

Yes, as you grow up, many of your friends will reject truth. You can’t control that. They will make bad decisions, especially with their bodies, and blame the “moment” or drunkenness or “freedom.” All are lies to make themselves feel better. They will sacrifice their bodies and dignity on altars of conformity and public opinion. Don’t be like them. Pray for them. Love them – but don’t emulate them. They are seeking a love that you already have and know – a love from the Father. Exemplify that love by the way that you love and respect yourself.

God is within you.

People (your Dad included) love to quote St. Paul’s famous verse “your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit” (1 Corinthians 6:19) but, rarely, do they understand exactly what he meant by it.

The truth is that you are a temple of the Holy Spirit. You are grace incarnate. You are a walking tabernacle. You are more beautiful (inside and out) than you will ever know, fear to believe, or be willing to imagine.

I know, I know… there goes Dad, again, quoting Scripture and tying to make your life miserable. Or is it something more than that? Is it, perhaps, that your Dad sees a beauty and dignity and worth in you that you don’t yet see in yourself?

Is it possible that your Dad isn’t just trying to keep you safe but to help you to know and trust in the ONLY love that will never abandon you, betray you, or let you down?

I believe in you. I love you. I pray for you, daily, and I know that God rejoices when He looks at you. Go ahead, roll your eyes again, but I’m not going to stop saying it. I may be long gone by the time you realize what I’m saying but I pray I’m not.

God has huge plans for you – and before you can fulfill one of them, you have to believe that you were made for greatness. I do. He does. Now, we’re just waiting on you.

Remember these words: I love you… now deal with it.

Love always in Christ,

Dad
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What is Advent?

12/19/2014

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Hide-an-seek was my favorite game growing up. The strategy of securing the perfect hiding place, the frantic scurry to hide, the thrill of the count, holding my breath as I heard the seeker getting closer … it was almost too much pressure for my little heart to take.

The lessons learned in hide-and-seek are lessons we can carry with us throughout life: the ability to think under pressure, the integrity to not look while counting, the self-control in remaining silent for long periods of time as well as the pure joy of playing a game with friends, just to name a few.

Too often, however, I treat my relationship with God like a game of hide-and-seek. I run and try to hide from Him (as if He cannot see me!). At times I even hold my breath and don't talk to Him. I figure that if He can't find me, He can't ask me to change.

There's just one problem with that thought process: We can't hide from God.

To God everything is exposed: all of our faults, imperfections, personal secrets but also all of our talents, traits, successes and achievements … that's the good news. The even better news is that God is always seeking you and me.

'For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost' (Luke 19:10).

That is one of reasons why the Church gives us the season of Advent. Over the four weeks preceding Christmas, we prepare not just for Jesus' coming as a baby in a manger but also for His Second Coming. The word Advent means 'to come,' and the Church, with great wisdom, nudges us with a 'wake-up call' to ensure that we are honest with our God and in right relationship with Him before He comes again.

God is seeking you. Are you hiding from Him? If not, good. If so, stop. You have no reason to hide yourself from Him.

He loves us even more than we love ourselves, so let Him. He's coming back at some point. The fact is only scary if we're not where we need to be in our relationship to God. A relationship with Jesus is all fun without any of the games.

Advent is a beautiful gift, so seek God and make the season one of depth and of honesty. Expose your soul before God and allow Him to love you for who you truly are: a sinner in need of His mercy, a work in progress.

As hide-and-seek reminds us, 'Ready or not, here He comes.'

'Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence?' Psalm 139:7
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